Friday, February 20, 2009
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Hello world!
Welcome to the world Juliette Nicola
Born: 15:37, 19th Feb 2009
Weight: 3810g (8lb 4oz)
Little sister for Genevieve
Juliette's Birth Story
A bit of background to begin with: I gave birth to Genevieve in Feb 2006 via unplanned c/section due to foetal distress. I had used hypnobirthing and made it to 7cm dilated drug free until Genevieve decided that she wanted out and wouldn't wait. Her heart rate kept dropping and not coming back up. When the OB was getting her out he said that she had been posterior which had been a major contributing factor to the distress.
When we found out we were having another baby we researched our options and decided that given the circumstances surrounding the previous birth there should be no reason that I couldn't attempt a VBAC (vaginal birth after caesarian). I found a wonderful pro-VBAC OB who was very realistic but also very positive. I employed a wonderful doula who had worked on VBACs before and I did my hypnobirthing revision to use again.
Given that the first pregnancy was problem free and I went into labour spontaneously after my waters broke at 37w6d, we assumed that this baby would also be early and also pretty similar in timing and size etc. However, I probably should have known this one would be different when we had a bleeding scare at 6w. After the scare though everything progressed well and I finished work at 36w assuming that I wouldn't have long to go.
Well my pregnancy passed my delivery date with Genevieve and this baby seemed like it was in no hurry to go anywhere. I started doing all of the natural induction methods that I was allowed to which included acupuncture, massage with clary sage oil, eating curries, lots of walking and the "other methods" (wink wink) but still nothing looked like happening.
At 39w3d I had an internal with my OB who said that my cervix was effaced and I was 1cm dilated so I was encouraged by that. That night and the next morning I lost my mucous plug and had a show. That morning I visited a friend and started getting some strong crampy back and low down pain. Even after walking home it didn't let up. Then I had another, larger show and started getting more contraction like pain.
I rang my mum to warn her to be on alert as she was on-call to pick Genevieve up from childcare. Then I rang my OB and my doula. Both said it sounded like early days and that I should stay at home and try to rest a bit longer. I decided to have a shower and wash my hair. I started to get stronger and more frequent pains that felt a bit more urgent so I called Cory at work and said that I felt like a wuss but I really wanted him to come home right now. He was home within 20 min. In that time things had ramped up in intensity and when he started timing me the contractions were 2mins apart lasting 30-40sec. We decided he should pack the car and that I should get into the hospital just as a precaution.
Just as we were leaving the house I went to the toilet and my waters broke. It looked like there was some meconium staining but I couldn't be sure so I said we had better go now just in case. When we got to the hospital (10 minutes later) I got back into the shower in the birth suite and the midwife confirmed there was meconium in the amniotic fluid so she wanted me out to monitor the baby. Then things started to get really painful. I was trying to use the hypnobirthing breathing to breath through the contractions but this pain was at the front of my uterus and it wasn't going away with the breathing. It was different pain and it felt wrong and out of control. It felt like I was trying to push the baby out through the front of my uterus. I described the pain to my doula and the OB. The OB had a look and saw some fresh blood and said we needed to prep for a c/section now as it was a possible rupture of the previous scar!
I was immediately rushed into theatre and given an epidural. About 10 minutes later the OB said she could see bub's hair through the uterus it was so thin and then as she touched the old scar it ruptured completely. She said we had about 5 minutes up our sleeves and my uterus would have ruptured during my contractions. In that situation it can be fatal for the baby and also the mother.
Fortunately baby Juliette Nicola was born safe and sound and I was able to be repaired however if I hadn't listened to my instincts and gone in when I did the outcome could have been so different. I am just so grateful I knew something was wrong and followed through with it. I can't even feel disappointed that I didn't get my VBAC as everytime I look at my little girl I am overwhelmed with the joy that she was clearly meant to be here and that for a matter of minutes she might not have been (and neither might I).
When we found out we were having another baby we researched our options and decided that given the circumstances surrounding the previous birth there should be no reason that I couldn't attempt a VBAC (vaginal birth after caesarian). I found a wonderful pro-VBAC OB who was very realistic but also very positive. I employed a wonderful doula who had worked on VBACs before and I did my hypnobirthing revision to use again.
Given that the first pregnancy was problem free and I went into labour spontaneously after my waters broke at 37w6d, we assumed that this baby would also be early and also pretty similar in timing and size etc. However, I probably should have known this one would be different when we had a bleeding scare at 6w. After the scare though everything progressed well and I finished work at 36w assuming that I wouldn't have long to go.
Well my pregnancy passed my delivery date with Genevieve and this baby seemed like it was in no hurry to go anywhere. I started doing all of the natural induction methods that I was allowed to which included acupuncture, massage with clary sage oil, eating curries, lots of walking and the "other methods" (wink wink) but still nothing looked like happening.
At 39w3d I had an internal with my OB who said that my cervix was effaced and I was 1cm dilated so I was encouraged by that. That night and the next morning I lost my mucous plug and had a show. That morning I visited a friend and started getting some strong crampy back and low down pain. Even after walking home it didn't let up. Then I had another, larger show and started getting more contraction like pain.
I rang my mum to warn her to be on alert as she was on-call to pick Genevieve up from childcare. Then I rang my OB and my doula. Both said it sounded like early days and that I should stay at home and try to rest a bit longer. I decided to have a shower and wash my hair. I started to get stronger and more frequent pains that felt a bit more urgent so I called Cory at work and said that I felt like a wuss but I really wanted him to come home right now. He was home within 20 min. In that time things had ramped up in intensity and when he started timing me the contractions were 2mins apart lasting 30-40sec. We decided he should pack the car and that I should get into the hospital just as a precaution.
Just as we were leaving the house I went to the toilet and my waters broke. It looked like there was some meconium staining but I couldn't be sure so I said we had better go now just in case. When we got to the hospital (10 minutes later) I got back into the shower in the birth suite and the midwife confirmed there was meconium in the amniotic fluid so she wanted me out to monitor the baby. Then things started to get really painful. I was trying to use the hypnobirthing breathing to breath through the contractions but this pain was at the front of my uterus and it wasn't going away with the breathing. It was different pain and it felt wrong and out of control. It felt like I was trying to push the baby out through the front of my uterus. I described the pain to my doula and the OB. The OB had a look and saw some fresh blood and said we needed to prep for a c/section now as it was a possible rupture of the previous scar!
I was immediately rushed into theatre and given an epidural. About 10 minutes later the OB said she could see bub's hair through the uterus it was so thin and then as she touched the old scar it ruptured completely. She said we had about 5 minutes up our sleeves and my uterus would have ruptured during my contractions. In that situation it can be fatal for the baby and also the mother.
Fortunately baby Juliette Nicola was born safe and sound and I was able to be repaired however if I hadn't listened to my instincts and gone in when I did the outcome could have been so different. I am just so grateful I knew something was wrong and followed through with it. I can't even feel disappointed that I didn't get my VBAC as everytime I look at my little girl I am overwhelmed with the joy that she was clearly meant to be here and that for a matter of minutes she might not have been (and neither might I).
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
"So.... when was your due date again?"
It's really weird, where we are at, at the moment. Genevieve would be over a week old, if we were to compare pregnancies.
As much as we try not to, it's hard not to think that we've gone further than we expected to go. Similarly, with the 'guess date' (as we always call it, coz that's all it is)... Our guess date is coming up this weekend. I'm sure as it approaches, as much as it IS just a guess, we'll be getting excited/anxious (or for Naomi, increasingly over it ;) )
We got asked if we were 'overdue' last night. I understand it's part of the vernacular, and people are interested and well-meaning. But, I feel like I'm constantly questioning this whole 'due' thing. I don't harp on about it with people, (otherwise I'd be CONSTANTLY saying it), but... if a conversation goes for a few minutes I tend to throw in "...and of course, it really is just a guess based upon the average pregnancy..." at some point.(And of course, everybody nods and says "Of course", but then they'll just go back to discussing the 'due date'). Sheesh.
The thing is... if we do go beyond our guess date, provided there's still plenty of fluid and all is good and happy (OK, again, perhaps not Naomi), then going beyond that date is perfectly healthy/normal.
But... it's spicy Thai for dinner tonight. Naomi's doing a bit of walking and having another acupuncture session today. Hopefully we can get the ball rolling.
As much as we try not to, it's hard not to think that we've gone further than we expected to go. Similarly, with the 'guess date' (as we always call it, coz that's all it is)... Our guess date is coming up this weekend. I'm sure as it approaches, as much as it IS just a guess, we'll be getting excited/anxious (or for Naomi, increasingly over it ;) )
We got asked if we were 'overdue' last night. I understand it's part of the vernacular, and people are interested and well-meaning. But, I feel like I'm constantly questioning this whole 'due' thing. I don't harp on about it with people, (otherwise I'd be CONSTANTLY saying it), but... if a conversation goes for a few minutes I tend to throw in "...and of course, it really is just a guess based upon the average pregnancy..." at some point.(And of course, everybody nods and says "Of course", but then they'll just go back to discussing the 'due date'). Sheesh.
The thing is... if we do go beyond our guess date, provided there's still plenty of fluid and all is good and happy (OK, again, perhaps not Naomi), then going beyond that date is perfectly healthy/normal.
But... it's spicy Thai for dinner tonight. Naomi's doing a bit of walking and having another acupuncture session today. Hopefully we can get the ball rolling.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
Friday 13th
I just got back from my appointment with Nicola and she did a scan to see how BB#2 was positioned. It is looking great and has moved around. It is in a much better position than last week and the head is well down. I will see her again on Wednesday and she will do an internal then to see how things are going but basically it's just a waiting game now.
Fortunately we have gone past Genevieve's birthday so they won't share the date. However, I am now about a week past where I got to with Genevieve so BB#2 must be very comfortable in there!
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Monday, February 9, 2009
Eine kleine nachtmusic
I realised I hadn't quite got the iPod ready. Now, everything that Naomi's deemed she wants to listen to is on there - and instead of mucking around with playlists, I changed the name of the album to start with 'birth', so I can easily isoloate just an album.
Oh... and there's a LOT of other stuff on there too, just in case she suggests she wants something different.
Push It - Salt N Pepa
Breathe - The Prodigy.
(Yes, they were amongst her suggestions)
Oh... and there's a LOT of other stuff on there too, just in case she suggests she wants something different.
Push It - Salt N Pepa
Breathe - The Prodigy.
(Yes, they were amongst her suggestions)
Friday, February 6, 2009
Dr Nicola Update
I went to see Dr Nicola this afternoon and my blood pressure was 110/70 so she was happy with that. BB#2 is definitely posterior so I am now on strict instructions to do the positioning exercises to get it turning.
Nicola thinks as soon as it turns it will fully engage and we will be not far off. However, she does still think she will see me next Friday so I am likely to be around for a week or so more....
Nicola thinks as soon as it turns it will fully engage and we will be not far off. However, she does still think she will see me next Friday so I am likely to be around for a week or so more....
Thursday, February 5, 2009
37 weeks 5 days
I have still been having BH and low pain but yesterday I felt that BB#2 had turned posterior so I will check that with Nciola who can scheck that to confirm. I am 37w5d today and Genevieve was born 37w6d so I am getting a bit antsy. I weighed myself this morning and I weighed exactly the same as I did when I weighed my self on the morning before Genevieve was born - spooooooky.....
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